Jewish Joy: Windows & Mirrors during Jewish American Heritage Month

A stack of the books referred to in the blog post, with a blue and white coffee mug on top that says "Read Jewish Books."

by Stacey F.

“They enjoy finding books that are not about Jews in the Holocaust or other hard times, but focus instead on characters who are like themselves and about families that sound like their own.”
– Judy Blume

While trying to frame how I was going to write this post, I found a 2015 article in Hadassah Magazine, where Judy Blume was interviewed. When I was younger and even more so now as an adult, this quote really resonates with me. As pointed out in the article, “…the unassuming way Blume presents the Jewish identities of many of her characters is a welcome surprise for Jewish readers, many of whom articulate their appreciation to Blume.” 

Randallstown in the 70s and 80s, when and where I grew up, was a very Jewish area. An avid reader, I made frequent visits to the Randallstown library, grabbing handfuls of books. These books provided windows to other cultures where I could see what life was like for other people. What I didn’t find so much were books that were mirrors, about people like me. 

Older now and as a librarian, I realized that when most people think about Jewish literature, they think about Holocaust books. Book lists and displays about Jewish literature always seem to highlight Holocaust books as being representative of Jewish literature. We are directed to remember (זכור). To never forget. These books are important, moving, and usually show triumph over oppressors. Powerful literature. However, it is essential to realize, not only for those reading Jewish books as windows but also for those reading them as mirrors, that there is so much more to Jewish literature.   

I now purposefully search for Jewish Joy in books. Again, ordinary people who happen to be Jewish, living their lives, finding humor, and most importantly their happily ever after. We need mirrors! 

The incomparable Judy Blume had a more modern, secular take on Jewish life. In Are You There G-D, It’s Me Margaret, I saw someone Jewish living their regular life. Being Jewish was important, but so were the other things that went on in middle school. When I read Starring Sally J. Freedman as Herself, I certainly didn’t know that I would one day share her last name. 

A blue and green poster for the Sydney Taylor Book Award reads, "It was heavenly to be able to borrow books from the library." An illustration from Taylor's book, All-of-a-Kind Family, is in the background, depicting the children in two rows holding hands as they walk.

Sydney Taylor’s All-of-a-Kind Family was actually one of the first books that I read where the main characters were Jewish. Even though the story took place starting in 1912, the books about an observant family living in New York City still resonated with me: the holidays they celebrated, the food that they ate, the Yiddish words used. One of their favorite activities was their weekly trip to the library! For the first time, parts of my life were reflected in the pages, and I wanted to be a part of their story. This series was so important to me that I read the books aloud to my daughter; I was able to experience Jewish Joy once again as she could see her life mirrored in the pages. Sydney Taylor’s body of work, including All-of-a-Kind Family, inspired the Sydney Taylor Book Award presented annually to outstanding books for children and teens that authentically portray the Jewish experience.

A number of recent romance authors embody Jewish Joy. Some examples are Stacey Agdern, Sara Goodman Confino, Felicia Grossman, Jean Meltzer, Meredith Schorr, and Rachel Lynn Solomon, to name a few.  Characters in these books are living their lives. Some are observant Jews, while others are more culturally Jewish. With her Once Upon the East End series, Felicia Grossman even offers a peek at what being Jewish was like in Victorian England.

These days, you can also find many more children’s books that not only serve as a mirror for young Jewish readers, but as windows for others unfamiliar with Jewish culture. When the American Girl books featured Rebecca Rubin, it was a very big deal for my daughter. They were published in 2009, when my daughter was nine – the same age as Rebecca! Who was an American Girl! And a Doll!  And she’s Jewish! Interestingly, she is from the same era as All-of-a-Kind Family.

A graphic novel series from 2010 remains a favorite, which begins with Hereville: How Mirka Got Her SwordWhile I love the story, I think my favorite part of the book is the tagline on the cover, “Yet Another Troll-Fighting 11-Year-Old Orthodox Jewish Girl”.  Because there are so many of them out there. 

A modern picture book classic is Patricia Polacco’s The Keeping Quilt, a fictionalized memoir of how a very special quilt is passed down through her family from generation to generation, serving as tablecloths, chuppahs, and blankets for babies. She has updated several editions to include how her children have used and cherished the family’s keeping quilt. 

A story written in free verse, Looking for Me by Betsy Rosenthal drew me in because it talks about Jewish life in depression-era Baltimore, which was where my parents grew up, even though they would have been a little younger. 

The graphic novel illustration shows a girl in long dress and work boots dancing atop a big ball of yarn. The title, Hereville: How Mirka Got Her Sword, appear on a banner wrapped around the ball.

I love the diversity found in books with Jewish characters. There is a trend with books where the characters are of mixed heritage: Jewish plus something else, a window and a mirror. Some good examples include My Basmati Bat Mitzvah by Paula J. Freedman about a young woman who is East Indian and Jewish, as well as Not Your All-American Girl by Madelyn Rosenberg & Wendy Wan-Long Shang, featuring a Chinese and Jewish main character.

The book cover has cartoon-style illustrations of Ruth Bader Ginsburg at four different stages of life; the largest image depicts her with her favorite collar, a South African beaded collar, as a Supreme Court justice.

Finally, I need to include books about one of my favorite American Jewish women, Ruth Bader Ginsburg. RBG overcame obstacles to fight for what she believed in. You can start with: 

Becoming RBG: Ruth Bader Ginsburg’s Journey to Justice by Debbie Levy

Notorious RBG: The Life and Times of Ruth Bader Ginsburg  by Irin Carmon & Shana Knizhnik

For more titles for Jewish American Heritage Month, here are some great selections:
for children and teens

fiction for adults

nonfiction for adults

References: 

Musleah, Rahel. “Judy Blume.” Hadassah Magazine, 21 Oct. 2015, http://www.hadassahmagazine.org/2015/10/21/judy-blume/. Accessed 1 May 2024. 

Sydney Taylor Book Award.” Association of Jewish Libraries, jewishlibraries.org/sydney_taylor_book_award/. Accessed 1 May 2024. 

Stacey F. is the Children’s Instruction & Research Supervisor at the Miller Branch.  She has been at HCLS since 2004 (this time). Her hobbies include reading romances, playing/teaching mah jongg, and starting sentences with, “It’s funny because….”

Community Building with Mah Jongg

Mah Jongg Meet Up at HCLS Miller Branch.

By Stacey F.

“We held our own with the experts!”
A favorite quote from two proud Mah Johngg Meet Up players

Note: This post refers to the American version of Mah Jongg. I have only a nodding acquaintance with Asian Mah Jongg, but I hope to learn how to play that version, too.

The community is the heart of the library – particularly since returning from the pandemic. In February 2024, we mark the second anniversary of one such community building activity: Mah Jongg Meet Up.

Growing up, my grandmother loved playing Mah Jongg with “the girls.” They would play, chat, and eat Entenmann’s snacks. While she would never let my sister or me be around when they played, she would show us her tiles and explain how to play the game. I was fascinated. When she passed away, I asked for her Mah Jongg set. I eventually joined a local group and playing regularly made me want to find (or create) a bigger community.

A group of Mah Jongg Meet Up participants stands near two tables set up with mah jongg games at a Mah Jongg Meet Up at Miller Branch.

Inspired by a friend who taught a Mah Jongg class at Carroll County Public Library, I started planning to offer something similar before the pandemic. I did not give up hope! In December 2021, I was able to host my first Mah Jongg 101 class. The response was exciting, and we held our first Mah Jongg Meet Up in February 2022. 

Then, I got a phone call from someone from Howard Community College (HCC) asking if we could meet more often. HCC offers an American Mah Jongg class, and the HCC instructors volunteered to assist with more regular playing sessions at the library. A partnership was born, and we now offer (with my colleague Julie) meetings on the second and fourth Tuesdays of the month. 

I love how Meet Ups foster community within the library. Some people come by themselves, and others bring friends. What makes me kvell* is when strangers become friends and form new Mah Jongg groups. One group of friends attended an early set of Mah Jongg 101 classes then came to the monthly Meet Ups to practice. When I saw them at the library over the summer, they told me how much they love the game and meet weekly to play, then go out to lunch afterwards.

Recently, I posted about Mah Jongg 101 on Facebook and received a message from a friend from junior high. She joined with a group of friends, who enjoyed the class. They now come to Meet Ups, as well as meet on their own. They laughingly told me how they played with all of my handouts in front of them, trying to figure out what’s going on. 

Attendance and interest in Mah Jongg continues to grow. Our email reminder list includes more than 120 participants, and we routinely fill six tables. New people pop in and regulars help teach newcomers. I am truly verklempt**  about this community I helped build at the library.

*kvell – [Yiddish] to feel happy or proud  
**verklempt – [Yiddish] overcome with emotion; unable to speak

Want to learn how to play American Mah Jongg? We have an upcoming class in April. Register once for both sessions.

Want to join us for a Mah Jongg Meet Up?  We meet on the second & fourth Tuesday of the month.  Check the calendar. No registration is required.

And, of course, we’ve got books on Mah Jongg, too!   

Learn about the history of Mah Jongg with Mahjong: A Chinese Game and the Making of American Culture  by Annelise Heinz.

Want to learn to play? This is my favorite book for new players: American Mah Jongg for Everyone: The Complete Beginner’s Guide by Gregg Swain & Toby Salk.

Stacey F. is the Children’s Instruction & Research Supervisor at the Miller Branch.  She has been at HCLS since 2004 (this time) and has been playing Mah Jongg on and off since 1995, which is why she chose Mahjchick as her Girl Scout camp name. If you would like to know more about Mah Jongg, feel free to reach out: stacey.freedman@hclibrary.org